The Orphan Spirit: Inner Healing From Deep Wounds of RejectionChikamu

Day 4: Healing from the Orphaned Spirit (Overcoming Need for Approval)

Seeking the approval of others is a common human tendency. The word here is tendency, which means likelihood to or inclination. As Christ followers we understand that we are approved because of the blood of Jesus that was shed for us.

Approval provides a sense of security. When we experience rejection or abandonment, our hearts will crave security. This craving will be projected through seeking approval of others.

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Approval: While wanting approval is part of our human experience, excessive dependence on it can lead to anxiety, people-pleasing, and a lack of authenticity. Christians can find freedom by focusing on God’s unconditional love and acceptance, which provides a stable foundation that human approval can never fully offer. Shifting focus to God’s Word for affirmation helps believers root their self-worth in something unchanging.

This is how we overcome. Knowing that they are loved, accepted, and valued by God regardless of others’ opinions can provide strength, peace, and confidence.

Scripture: “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man?” – Galatians 1:10

Reflection: The orphan spirit often seeks validation and approval from others. God’s approval, however, is already yours. Today, practice living from a place of knowing you are already accepted and loved by God, no matter how others may see you.

Prayer: Father, help me to seek only Your approval. Free me from the need to prove myself, and remind me that I am accepted and loved as I am.