YOUR VOICEMATTERS

HEART

Everything starts with words. Even the oldest story, in the book of Genesis, begins with God using words, using his voice, to speak heaven and earth into existence. Genesis also says we are made in the image of God, and though human, I believe our words are powerful enough to change the world around us. Kings, kingdoms, friendships, and families can rise and fall over words. Words can build people up or break them down. The words you’ve chosen to speak have profoundly impacted where you find yourself today and where you will be in the future.

There’s another powerful communication tool that you have, and that’s silence. Sometimes your silence can say more than words. It’s good to stay silent when you’re tempted to say things that could hurt others, but staying silent when you should speak can also cause a lot of harm. You have God’s word to support you here. When you don’t know what to say, look to Jesus. Read the Bible and pray for wisdom. It’s amazing what God will whisper, and how much peace you will feel when you allow him to lead you.

One of the most powerful ways you can use your voice is to speak up for others in need, especially those who have no voice. When it comes to life and choice, it’s become a popular opinion that the voice of a father doesn’t matter. But that’s simply not true. Your voice is powerful, and it’s been given to you for a reason. “Her body, her choice” may ring through your mind. Isn’t that respect? Pregnancy center counselors can tell you the truth about how many women in unplanned pregnancies long to hear the father of their child say, “I want this. I’m in this with you.” Many moms don’t want to face the burden of making these life-changing decisions alone.

According to a national survey , fathers still have the greatest influence on a mother’s decision when facing an unplanned pregnancy, far outweighing the influence of medical professionals or even her own family. As a dad, let me encourage you to courageously step into your role. Understand how much influence you hold, and know that your voice really does matter. You have an opportunity to be a hero to your little boy or girl, by being their voice while they can’t speak. What will you do with the voice you’ve been given? I hope you choose to speak life into your world.

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Think about someone in your life who used their words to build you up. What did they say that meant so much to you? Now think of someone who used their words to tear you down. What did they say that hurt you?

How have you used your words to help or hurt others? Practice the power of words right now. Write down some ways that you could use your voice to make a positive difference for your child and the other important people in your life.

I’m going to keep it short because there are so many incredible verses today. God’s words are powerful. You’re made in his image, so your words are powerful. Learn from Jesus to use your words wisely.