When Bad Sounds Good

Motivation matters, as does context—public or private.

Like every other talent, one’s speaking ability can be used for good or for evil. We are warned to avoid being misled through polished pearls of persuasion. In all matters, we are well advised to consider the foundation supporting any claim. And we are encouraged to listen to different viewpoints and avoid rushing to judgment.

When someone has focused their attention on us, the important question to ask ourselves is why. By recognizing the seduction of selective attention and the allure of affirmation, we’re equipped to separate honest friends from those who use flattery to set a trap. Beyond flattery, smooth words reveal the soul of the speaker in other ways too. Venom is sometimes lined with velvet. Some of the most insensitive, demeaning, insulting sentiments come in a soft shell.

One of the best ways to avoid being seduced by a silver tongue is to both look and listen because attention is perception. In contrast, authentic people speak the truth at all times, even if it is something you do not want to hear. We discern sound teaching through the extent to which it is based on Scripture. Listen carefully.