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"Survive and Thrive: Day 5"
Family and friends mean well. Odds are they have been affected by divorce in some way, possibly going through it as well. But your situation is as unique as you are.
It amazes me how many people will say "just get back in the saddle" and "I knew they were not good for you since the beginning." Really, Professor? How do you know my situation? How many of my tears have you wiped away for me?
I know that friends and family can comfort you, but sometimes they lack real Godly wisdom that will give you the help you desperately need.
How many are willing to drag you to the bar or hook you up with their friend, but are unwilling to sit and pray with you? If another divorced person is helping you celebrate your divorce like you won the Super Bowl, that is a problem.
Especially at this time, don't let others drag you down. Seek God and allow Him to bring you up to all He has for you. Pray, read His Word, and get rooted in a Bible-preaching local church.
You need a counselor, pastor, or mentor outside of your family and friend network that can be brutally honest and impartial to help you process what is going on. I believe that your family and others need to be there to comfort and support you, but limit the advice you accept unless it is Godly wisdom brought forth in real love and truth.
Seek a divorce recovery group, like DivorceCare, that will allow you to meet others that are working through the process like you. The leaders will be a resource of understanding and wisdom that you can lean on, being impartial and up front with you. You can help others as they help you in a group setting. It allows you to help understand your specific situation.
Let your family be your family. Let your friends be your friends. Let your pastors, counselors, and group leaders be your wisdom providers. Let God fill in the gaps.
Family and friends mean well. Odds are they have been affected by divorce in some way, possibly going through it as well. But your situation is as unique as you are.
It amazes me how many people will say "just get back in the saddle" and "I knew they were not good for you since the beginning." Really, Professor? How do you know my situation? How many of my tears have you wiped away for me?
I know that friends and family can comfort you, but sometimes they lack real Godly wisdom that will give you the help you desperately need.
How many are willing to drag you to the bar or hook you up with their friend, but are unwilling to sit and pray with you? If another divorced person is helping you celebrate your divorce like you won the Super Bowl, that is a problem.
Especially at this time, don't let others drag you down. Seek God and allow Him to bring you up to all He has for you. Pray, read His Word, and get rooted in a Bible-preaching local church.
You need a counselor, pastor, or mentor outside of your family and friend network that can be brutally honest and impartial to help you process what is going on. I believe that your family and others need to be there to comfort and support you, but limit the advice you accept unless it is Godly wisdom brought forth in real love and truth.
Seek a divorce recovery group, like DivorceCare, that will allow you to meet others that are working through the process like you. The leaders will be a resource of understanding and wisdom that you can lean on, being impartial and up front with you. You can help others as they help you in a group setting. It allows you to help understand your specific situation.
Let your family be your family. Let your friends be your friends. Let your pastors, counselors, and group leaders be your wisdom providers. Let God fill in the gaps.
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During divorce and other extremely difficult times, there comes a moment when you will wonder if you will ever make it. Over the next 7 days, you will be able to connect with God through prayers, advice, and action plans. Learn to not just survive, but survive and thrive.
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