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Refresh Your Marriage in 31 Days

DAY 3 OF 31

"This is what I love about you"
In the beginning you love everything about him. You are captivated by his six pack, his spirit of adventure and his lion’s heart. In the beginning you love everything about her. You go crazy with the swing of her hips, a wink or a chewy chocolate cake baked especially for you.

One day you wake up. Daily routine has shattered your rose-tinted glasses. “His six pack is not so hot anymore, instead his joints creak with every move.” Or: “It would be better if she swung her hips into a gym one of these days.” You realise: “My partner has changed.”

Fortunately! He isn’t standing still. The problem is not the change but rather, that you are a creature of habit. It is your task to rediscover your partner and to simultaneously not forget why you went up the aisle with sparkling eyes to marry your bride/groom.

MARRIAGE BOOSTER
Write down on a piece of paper what attracted you to your partner when you first met him/her. What personality traits, strengths and reasons made you want to have him/her at all costs?
Complete the list with the positive characteristics that your partner has acquired over the years of your married life. Then tell each other!

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About this Plan

Refresh Your Marriage in 31 Days

31 short, smart and cheeky texts want to help you to get your marriage back on track. And to keep the fire burning in your relationship. The authors Susanna and Leo Bigger want to encourage you to try something new and to tackle old issues: listening to each other, talk about sexuality and feelings, finally introduce pocket money, allow the romance a comeback, read the Song of Songs to each other. Are you ready to put more wood on the fire?

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