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The 40-Day Marriage Habits Devotional (1-5)

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Day 2 - A False Peace is No Peace

problem

When we encounter a marital problem, we often don't know how to address it!

So we don't do anything.

But resentment and bitterness has already seeped into the relationship.

The water is heating up.

the lie

We think that a false peace is better than the confrontation.

It is partially true: endless fighting, arguments, disrespectful tones, will lead to despair and distance.

So we withhold the truth to prevent the pain of conflict.

We may even lie to ourselves: holding our tongue is for the other person.

the pain

As a result, distance grows and bitterness deepens its roots.

The problems worsen. The temperature rises.

Eventually you treat each others as roommates.

Then one of you, unable to contain their resentment, asks for a divorce. Ironically this hurts their spouse far more than had they been able to breach the issue and spoken the truth.

That's the pain of the lie. The truth is withhold the truth for ourselves, not for the other person.

the promised land

The actual Promised Land isn't a perfect marriage.

It's the safety, grace, and trust in God's word to allow a "working out" of each other's sanctification together without condemnation.

The promised land on earth is to experience a sanctifying cycle that redeems our sin through grace and truth.

This reminds us of Christ at the cross.

the solution

When the two of you agree ahead of time to a daily habit of letting Scripture convict one another, then you can lift your spouse up to God's hands.

Let the Word cut to the bone and reveal each other's thoughts.

Sometimes Scripture will challenge you to speak the truth or share an unmet need.

the action

Start the conversation to have 15-minutes daily to go over such a set of devotions together; to read them or listen to them together and discuss.

Every day, for 15-minutes.

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The 40-Day Marriage Habits Devotional (1-5)

This covers 5 devotionals out of the 40 day series for married or pre-marital couples to go through together. What's different about this devotional is it builds in habits that can save a marriage. Many devotionals just focus on who God is; this creates a Spirit-led space for couples to enter into habits to ward off the bad patterns that lead to broken marriages. It's the devotional-based alternative to marriage counseling.

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