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Lessons Go Both Ways: A 3-Day Parenting PlanSample

Lessons Go Both Ways: A 3-Day Parenting Plan

DAY 1 OF 3

Hearts of Compassion

Clothe yourselves with compassion.

Colossians 3:12

It was a cold December in Philadelphia. Eleven-year-old Trevor Ferrell was watching TV in his comfortable home when images of street people flashed on the screen. Trevor’s heart was touched—he had to do something. He grabbed a blanket and pillow from his closet and begged his parents to take him downtown. They resisted at first—it could be dangerous, after all—but eventually relented. Soon, Trevor was handing the blanket and pillow to a grateful homeless man.

That night marked the first of many visits by the Ferrell family to Philadelphia’s street people. Trevor’s friends started joining him, others began donating items to hand out, and a ministry was born. Trevor’s Campaign for the Homeless attracted national interest and inspired chapters across the country. An abandoned Philadelphia hotel was turned into Trevor’s Place, a home for street people, and an adjacent building was transformed into Trevor’s Next Door, a residential living and service center.

Hundreds of people found help and hope because a fifth-grader remembered the words of Jesus: “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me” (Matthew 25:40). Christ had incredible compassion for the down-and-outers of the world, touching even lepers who were likely shunned by others (Luke 5:12–13). When you encourage your children to help those in need, you move them that much closer to the compassionate heart of Christ.

Before you say good night . . .

  • How are you encouraging your kids to show compassion to others?
  • What could you do this week for the “least of these” in your town?

Lord Jesus, may we all have ears to hear the cries for help around us. Show us how to respond as You would, bringing Your compassion to our family and to our world. Amen.

Excerpted from Night Light for Parents, used with permission.

Whoever oppresses a poor man insults his Maker, but he who is generous to the needy honors him. (Prov. 14:31, ESV)

But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was, and when he saw him, he had compassion. He went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he set him on his own animal and brought him to an inn and took care of him. And the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, saying, ‘Take care of him, and whatever more you spend, I will repay you when I come back.’ Which of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?” He said, “The one who showed him mercy.” And Jesus said to him, “You go, and do likewise.” (Lk. 10:33-37, ESV)

Day 2

About this Plan

Lessons Go Both Ways: A 3-Day Parenting Plan

As parents, we desire to share meaningful lessons with our children as they grow toward adulthood. Since much of what children learn often is “more caught than taught,” we would do well to model the concepts and behaviors that we want to instill, even as we offer instruction (realizing we also can learn from them!). Let’s consider areas where educating AND exemplifying can have an effect.

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