How to Date with a Friends-First Approach pt. 2

Proverbs 11:3

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.”

As you find yourself in the midst of a friends-first approach to dating, it’ll require you to make adjustments as it progresses. Being honest with yourself and the other person is paramount. Take Proverbs 11:3 to heart, and commit to navigating this process with integrity.

Here’s how to do it:

Maintain Boundaries

When treading this path, it’s crucial to set boundaries that honor the friendship while leaving space for romance to potentially bloom. This might mean holding back on physical intimacy or avoiding deep romantic discussions until you both feel ready. Setting these boundaries early on can prevent confusion and help both of you understand the pace and direction of your relationship, making the transition smoother if and when the time comes.

Assess Your Feelings

As your friendship grows, it's important to periodically reflect on your feelings. Do you find yourself thinking about them in a romantic context? Do your interactions leave you craving more than just friendship? Or have you realized you’d be better off as friends only? Recognizing and acknowledging these changes in your emotions are key steps toward understanding whether you're both on the same page and if it's the right time to discuss evolving your relationship beyond friendship.

Communicate Openly

Transitioning from friends to dating requires openness and honesty. It’s essential to have a candid conversation about how you’re both feeling, your intentions, and what you hope for in a potential romantic relationship. Address any concerns and express your desires clearly. This level of transparency can minimize misunderstandings and ensure you move forward with aligned expectations, paving the way for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.