The Path Of A Peacemaker A Devotional By P. Brian NobleSample

“Peacemakers As Pursuers”

A reality check for biblical peacemaking appears in Romans 12:18. It says, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men” (NASB).

God calls peacemakers to pursue peace with everyone. However, this verse is a great reminder that peace with everyone is not always an option. 

As we did yesterday, let’s break the verse down.

•  “If possible . . .”

Because we, as believers, are new creations in Christ, peace should always be possible. However, not everyone will be willing to reconcile or make peace. Sometimes making peace is not possible. Maybe the other person is unwilling or not ready. Still, we must be willing to pursue. 

I’m often asked, “Do I keep pursuing and pursuing?” How often you pursue or how long you pursue is dependent on what the Holy Spirit speaks to you. However, I believe you should always keep the door open to reconciliation. Let’s say you make a request to reconcile a relationship and the other person turns you down. Don’t turn bitter; instead, let them know you are always available.

•  “So far as it depends on you . . .”

We can make excuses for why we don’t pursue peace with someone else: “They’ll never be willing to reconcile, so why bother?” “They’re too stubborn.” “They’re just that way.”

We aren’t responsible for how people might react to our efforts at reconciliation. We are responsible for trying to reconcile.

• “Be at peace with all men.”

All of us can think of people with whom we have a broken relationship. These are the people we need to pursue. But let’s face it, pursuing peace does not come naturally. Because of our sin nature, we seek revenge before we seek peace. That’s why the following verses in Romans 12 remind us to leave vengeance to God.

When people don’t want to reconcile, we need to give a blessing, not write them off. And we should always be looking for opportunities to try to make a re-connection.

What are the obstacles you face in reconciling with somebody? How can you keep the door to reconciliation open?