21 Days to a Victorious LifeSample

Day 18 – Don’t lie to yourself

Too often we ask God for clarity about certain relationships despite the fact that the answer is right before our eyes. We ask God to make it clear…and He does, and we ask again, please Father let me know, and He does! But because we desire our will so desperately, we sometimes fail to accept God’s truth concerning certain relationships.

Don’t ignore what God is trying to tell you

One thing I can promise you, if you truly seek His face regarding a relationship, He will make His will known unto you, refer to Ephesians 5:17. It is not God’s will to keep you in the dark. In John 12:46, He reminds us that His people will not be kept in the dark. But you have to understand, God will not force His will upon you. He gives us a warning before the great fall; it is our choice whether to heed the warning or continue on to the great fall.

Trust Him

Proverbs 3:5-6 puts it best, “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not to your own understanding. Acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.” When God gives us a red light, it is in our best interest to heed the warning. For this reason, it makes no sense to run the “light” because in doing so, we are bound to get injured. In Psalm 84:11, we are reminded that God will not withhold any good thing from us. Therefore, you don’t have to question a rightful relationship. If you are seeking God first, He will give you the peace to move forward or warn you to move in a different direction.