I Can and I Will Through God’s Power - 7 Ways to Live Boldly for Christ by Ayub PaulSample
2. Stop all kinds of gossip, start having fruitful conversations
I did not really understand the term 'gossip' nor did I think it was a sin. Whenever we think about living in sin, it is always those giant sins like adultery, murder, or theft that come to mind. However, sometimes, sins like gossip remain hidden in our lives for years, and just like cancer, it slowly destroys our lives and those around us. You cannot justify your sin to God, no matter how big or small; hidden or visible; sin remains sin. God hates all forms of sin but He loves the sinners. When we spend time gossiping, we are not just wasting time; we are actively engaging in something that can hurt others and ourselves. In situations where you might feel compelled to discuss the faults or actions of others, we are not making any difference by gossiping about them. Here are three practical steps to eliminate gossip from your life.
(i). Guard your mouth (Psalm 141:3)
The guard in this verse would be the Holy Spirit who helps you assess and regulate what comes from out of your mouth. When you utter the words, "Please, God, help me control what I say," you are asking God for divine guidance to help you when you speak. It is like relying on a watchful guardian for your mouth to ensure that only words of kindness, truth, and wisdom pass through its gates. Just as the guard shields the castle from unwelcome intruders, the Holy Spirit can help you safeguard your relationships, reputation, and integrity by guiding your words with care and discernment.
(ii). Do something productive with your time (2 Thessalonians 3:11)
A lot of people who gossip about others have a lot of free time. There is an old saying that goes like this: An empty mind is indeed a devil’s workshop. In the New Testament, we see Apostle Paul addressing the Christians in regard to this. “We hear that some among you are idle and disruptive. They are not busy; they are busybodies.” (2 Thessalonians 3:11) This verse is basically warning us against laziness and interfering in other people's lives instead of focusing on our own responsibilities. If you focus on your personal and spiritual development, I guarantee you will not have any free time left to gossip about others.
(iii). Limit interactions with individuals prone to gossip (Proverbs 20:19)
If you are serious about your spiritual growth, you will have to make tough decisions in life. You may have to walk away from those family members, friends, relatives, and Church members who force you to engage in gossip. Being a believer is not easy. It is confusing because even though the world has its own norms, the Bible is the ultimate source of a believer’s principles. It is not easy at all, however, the Lord will help you follow the Biblical standards. You will face a lot of backlash. People may think you are being prideful due to your limited interactions with them, but that is absolutely fine! You are accountable to the Lord and He knows your heart. Therefore, you should not worry about the judgment from others but to honour, the Lord, your God!
About this Plan
This plan is based on a book that shares the story of a South Asian immigrant who grew up in a Pastoral home and saw the challenges in his personal life that can make it tough to grow in faith and live with boldness. Drawing from personal experiences and practical tips, it shows how you can face challenges, build your faith and talks about seven ways to live boldly for Christ.
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