EquipHer Vol. 7: "Empower Your Voice, Impact Your Audience"Sample

Day 3: The Art of Active Listening

In the fast pace of our daily lives, how often do we catch ourselves crafting a response before the other person has even finished speaking? Yet, the Bible encourages us to be “quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). This goes beyond hearing with our ears; it means listening intentionally and actively with our hearts.

Jesus was a master at listening. He met people in their deepest needs, not by immediately imposing His perspective but by attentively hearing what they had to say and truly understanding their struggles. Consider the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4). Jesus didn’t merely answer her questions; He listened to the pain behind her words and the spiritual thirst she resisted in revealing. This intentional act of listening created a deep connection that transformed her life and those in her community.

Active listening is an act of love. As Galatians 6:2 reminds us, “Carry each other’s burdens.” When we truly listen, we step into the emotions and experiences of those speaking, demonstrating empathy and genuine care. In this context, curiosity becomes a gift: sincerely asking, “How are you really?” or “What do you think?” opens the door to deeper and more meaningful relationships.

But this isn’t always easy. Proverbs 18:13 warns, “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” Slow down today. Listen without rushing. Don’t focus solely on formulating a response; strive to understand fully. You’ll be surprised at how active listening can transform not only your conversations but also your impact on the lives of others.

Reflective Questions:

• In your daily interactions, do you give enough time to listen before responding?
• How can you cultivate greater curiosity about the thoughts and feelings of others?

Prayer:
Lord, teach me to listen to others with care and love, just as You do with me. Help me slow down and show empathy to those around me. Make me an instrument of Your peace and love in everyday conversations. Amen.