The Power of Christian Friendship: Discovering Shared Values Before Committing to RomanceSample

Day 3: Patience and Selflessness

Discovering the shared values of patience and selflessness sets the stage for a romantic relationship that can go the distance.

Patience

In a world of instant gratification, patience is a virtue that stands out. As 1 Corinthians 13:7 reminds us, "love is patient". In your dating life, this means trusting God's perfect timing. It's about allowing your relationship to unfold naturally, not rushing into commitments without seeking His guidance.

As friends, discovering this shared value of patience allows you to enjoy getting to know each other without pressure. It helps you create a deeper connection built on trust and understanding rather than instant gratification. By practicing patience, you honor each other's personal growth and the path God has set for your relationship.

Selflessness

Selflessness is about putting your partner's needs and interests before your own, embodying the love Christ has for us — both sacrificially and unconditionally. It means listening actively to your partner, supporting them in their goals, and demonstrating love that seeks to serve rather than be served.

In friendship, selflessness allows you to build a strong foundation where you both feel valued and understood. It's about showing up for one another with genuine care, setting the stage for a romantic relationship that thrives on mutual respect and compassion.

When you discover these shared values of patience and selflessness in friendship before committing to romance, you create a dynamic where both of you feel secure and cherished. It sets the stage for a relationship that can go the distance because it’s rooted in selfless love.