The “How?” pt. 2

Proverbs 4:23

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

Once you’ve prayed and decided on your dating expectations, it’s time to take action to continue to date with intention.

Here’s how to do it, part 2:

Establish Healthy Boundaries

Establishing healthy physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries is critical in intentional dating. For example, deciding on the level of physical intimacy you're comfortable with before marriage and sticking to it or setting aside time for individual prayer and reflection.

These boundaries are not just rules but a reflection of your values. They serve as safeguards for your heart and mind, ensuring that as you explore the possibility of a relationship, it develops in a manner that honors God. Establishing clear boundaries early on also conveys respect for yourself and those you date, creating interactions based on mutual respect. It's about being clear on your principles and having the courage to uphold them, even when it’s hard.

Seek Godly Counsel

Finally, don't hesitate to seek advice from trusted Christian mentors or friends. They can provide wisdom, perspective, and encouragement based on their own experiences and understanding of God's Word. For instance, if you're unsure about whether a relationship is right for you, they could provide insight and help you see the situation from a different angle.

This Godly counsel is invaluable, as it comes from a place of love and faith. It can guide you through difficult decisions, offer support during times of doubt, and celebrate with you in moments of joy. Remember, no one is meant to navigate life alone, and in the context of dating, having a supportive Christian community can be a source of strength and guidance.

Today, take some time to identify and write down the specific boundaries that are important to you in dating. Whether they are physical, emotional, or spiritual, recognizing what these are is the first step in establishing them with others. After that, consider reaching out to a close friend or mentor to share your thoughts and ask for their advice and support. This talk can help you stay strong and give you more ideas on how to stick to your boundaries when dating with intention.