Freedom in ForgivenessSample

Don’t Sweat The Slight

Ready: “God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy.” —Matthew 5:7

Set: In the midst of competition, there are moments that test not only our outward reactions, but also our inward reasoning. It’s often a split-second decision that makes or breaks a game. Or maybe it’s a subtle slight, a lingering resentment, or second-guessing every move you make.

Disappointment lingers everywhere. If we’re not careful, a seed of unyielding resentment may take hold of our heart.

Yet it’s also in those moments where the opportunities to forgive present themselves. And that’s where true victory awaits. Jesus implores us to bridge the gap, promising a return on our investment.

Christ calls us to forgive. He wants us to extend grace and mercy in the likeness of the Father. When we hold onto our hurt with a clenched fist, blame wells up inside as we quickly shift into the driver’s seat of accusations and finger-pointing. And when we do that, we’re determining on our own who’s worthy of forgiveness and who’s not.

To turn our hearts towards those who may have wronged us, we must first look inward. Every one of us has fallen short at one point or another. We have lashed out in anger and, knowingly or not, we’ve all hurt someone else by our selfish desires.

But by God’s mercy, He has us covered.

We’re called to be holy, to strive for Jesus’ example of holiness.

Forgiveness is a daily, active, mindful choice to surrender our slights to the Servant King. Keep first the Kingdom of God; He will add His peace and grace.—Sarah Rennicke

Go:

1. Are you quick to find others at fault for your actions?

2. How can you turn your disappointments into honest talk with God?

3. Where can you help someone else stop second-guessing his or her own mistakes?

Overtime: Father, I cover up my hurt with anger and blame. In reality, I am in need of forgiveness and a fresh dose of Your peace. You delight in showing mercy, now help me surrender to Your holiness and love for my heart today. Amen.

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