Becoming an Intentional FriendSample

MADE for FRIENDSHIP

How well does this statement describe you? As an intentional friend, I partner with God to build healthy relationships and restore broken ones.

According to the American Sociological Review, the average American has two close friends. That may seem totally normal to you, but consider that just a few decades ago, the average was six close friends. Our close friends have been cut down to a third. Not only is that a steep decline, but a whole bunch of people report that they don’t have a single close and trusted friend.

When God created Adam, He said, "It is not good that man should be alone." This isn’t just a statement about marriage; it’s a statement about friendship. Why would God look at something He has just made, that sin has not messed up yet, and declare it to be 'not good'? Because Adam was alone... and Adam was created to be like God. And God was not alone. Not ever. For all eternity, the Trinity has existed in relationship. And since we have been made in the image of God, that means we, too, are made for friendship.

Ask Yourself:

-Who are your closest friends? What are the qualities that make those friendships so close?

-What do you value most in your friends?

-In John 15:9-17, what is Jesus teaching his disciples about friendship with Himself and with one another?

Pause to Pray: Praise the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit for the love they share and extend. Thank God for your friendships, and ask Him to help you restore broken ones.

Take a Next Step: How will you express love and gratitude toward your close friends this week? Consider how words and actions work together.