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Prepare: Think of times when you have been really close to someone. Try to imagine what the images used here would have meant to those who heard them.

Love awakened
The couple are now married (vs 8–12; 5:1). This chapter is full of expressions of love, and the language, while odd to a modern ear, is tender and intimate. The walled garden which formerly kept the lover out is now open. Love is awakened, and it pleases. In its right place and setting, the gift of human love can be fully enjoyed.

According to Gary Chapman, there are five ‘love languages’, or ways in which people express and receive love (The Five Love Languages, Northfield Press, 2004). They include words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch.

Love languages
Clearly in this passage the lover seems to prefer the first love language: it is full of compliments and affirmation. This is what his bride appreciates (and perhaps needs) most, not simply what he finds easiest to give. But look out for hints of the other love languages (eg 2:6; 4:8); you may find more!

We all like to receive love in our preferred ‘language’ – but we often fail to identify the love languages of our loved ones, and so never give them what they most need. A simple action, or some quality time together, can mean more to some people than any expensive gifts or lavish utterances.

Respond: Think about how you express your love to those closest to you – and to God. How do they need to be shown your love today?

http://www.wordlive.org/Session/Classic/2012-11-28