Beyond MeSample

Serving Starts at Home

As people grow older, the deepest regret most often expressed is the remorse of not spending enough time with their families. When death’s door is near, they wish they could go back and show their loved ones how much they cared—but often there's not enough time to do much more than say, “I'm sorry.” It's heartbreaking some people never realize how important their families are until it's too late.

God designed us to care for our family. He never planned for us to do life alone, but instead to live beyond ourselves. But sometimes we forget—in all our doing good—we are obliged to do the MOST GOOD for those closest to us. If we gain all the titles and success the world has to offer, but we do not encourage and serve our own family members, then we will find our hearts full of deep regrets.

If you really want to put the words of Jesus into action, start in your own home. The Scriptures admonish the husband to serve his wife and love her as Christ loves the Church. To the wife, it says to respect her husband and follow his leadership. In so doing it brings peace to the family. To the parents, it says to lead and encourage their children. To the children, it says to obey your parents’ instructions.

As we intentionally love and serve our families, one thing is undeniable: we become better followers of God, and so do they.

As you engage with God’s word:

● What is God saying to you?

● What does it mean to you?

● What action step do you need to take?

After you reflect on these questions, bring everything to God in prayer.