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Everyday Conversations that Encourage & Inspire

What kind of conversation are we supposed to have in life--not just on special occasions, but every day? In Colossians 4:6, the Apostle Paul says our conversation should be gracious and attractive. Why? He explains that too -- so you will have the right response for everyone. What the heck does that mean? If you go back a verse you’ll see that we’re called to make the most of every opportunity to share the Gospel by living wisely among those who are not believers. Nothing kills the message of God’s love and sacrifice more than when we, his children, say one thing but behave in an entirely different manner -- do we walk the walk or just talk the talk? It’s been said that you may be the only Bible someone ever reads, make sure it’s a positive encounter! That’s a daunting task, but it's one that Christ stands ready to help us achieve.

As a follower of Christ, what percentage of your everyday conversation is positive and faith-filled? Our words can be fuel or water. They can be used to put out a blaze and to satisfy our thirst, or they can add to the fire and destroy. How can your conversation be adjusted to reflect this verse? How will that impact an onlooking world at your workplace, neighborhood, and family life? As a parent, there’s nothing more humbling than to hear your child say something unflattering in public and know as soon as they say it, that they learned it by watching and listening to you!

In Philippians 1:10 Paul makes a connection between what “really matters” and living a “pure and blameless” life. What do you think “really matters” in life? Try this exercise to help you know what matters to you: Write the eulogy you hope your loved ones will say at your funeral. It can be an eye-opening experience. If you look at where you spend your time and money, would that tell you what really matters to you? How do you feel about the answer? If you make what matters a priority in your life, would that help you live a “pure and blameless” life?

Pray: Pray that God gives you a heart that will speak faith-filled words to others. Make a prayer list of those you need to speak life over. Pray every day this week for an opportunity to show them God’s love through your words.