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"Shock"
Words will never be able to describe how you are feeling. “What just happened? How? When? WHY?”
When you first hear those words “I want a divorce” or are blind-sided by papers served to you when you least expect it, no words do it justice. Feelings that you have never experienced before are flooding over you. You can’t even get the words out because… “WHAT JUST HAPPENED?”
At this time, you are filled with every emotion and a million thoughts that race through your mind. It is a time when you need to just stop and gather yourself. Even though you may just want to do something crazy and ask for forgiveness later, don’t do it!! Just stop, drop (to your knees), and roll (to the foot of the cross)!!
No advice at this moment will do you any good until you realize that there are things going on that you cannot control. There are things going on that need to be analyzed from a higher vantage point.
There will come a time when the feelings of shock will be gone and other feelings form. Don’t allow negative feelings to control your actions or reactions.
Right now, the only one who understands what you are feeling and going through, is God. He is the only one who can give you peace for your today and your future.
Prayer
God, I have no idea what is going on, but I choose to trust You. I need You now to show me the way. Please bring forth Your true Word, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Words will never be able to describe how you are feeling. “What just happened? How? When? WHY?”
When you first hear those words “I want a divorce” or are blind-sided by papers served to you when you least expect it, no words do it justice. Feelings that you have never experienced before are flooding over you. You can’t even get the words out because… “WHAT JUST HAPPENED?”
At this time, you are filled with every emotion and a million thoughts that race through your mind. It is a time when you need to just stop and gather yourself. Even though you may just want to do something crazy and ask for forgiveness later, don’t do it!! Just stop, drop (to your knees), and roll (to the foot of the cross)!!
No advice at this moment will do you any good until you realize that there are things going on that you cannot control. There are things going on that need to be analyzed from a higher vantage point.
There will come a time when the feelings of shock will be gone and other feelings form. Don’t allow negative feelings to control your actions or reactions.
Right now, the only one who understands what you are feeling and going through, is God. He is the only one who can give you peace for your today and your future.
Prayer
God, I have no idea what is going on, but I choose to trust You. I need You now to show me the way. Please bring forth Your true Word, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture
About this Plan
God is the only answer for complete healing and wholeness, especially when it comes to divorce. Through this plan you will draw closer to God while gaining wisdom on how to handle your emotions and feelings during this most difficult time. Choosing to repeat the 31 days will reveal your progress while God continues to bind the wounds and give you greater closure.
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We would like to thank Brent D Papineau for providing this plan. For more information, please visit: http://divorcetohealing.blog
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