Don’t Talk About It - 7-Day Prayer GuideSample

"We Gotta Think Before We Speak" 

By: Dante Bowe & Andrea Fisher

Scripture: Read James 1:19-27

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak…” (James 1:19, NIV).

Big idea 

In this verse, James says that Christians should be “quick to listen and slow to speak,” exposing the depravity of an unrestrained tongue. James’ answer to free expression is to silence it by listening first. “Listen” derives from the Greek word ακούω (pronounced a-kou-o), meaning to consider what has been said, to understand, and to learn. Following that is the phrase “slow to speak.” In this Scripture, James warns believers against self-deception, which is present in a conversation where we are unwilling to listen first so that we can hear, consider, understand, and learn. 

Although James’ words could have been meant for disputes with unbelieving persecutors, there are implications that his instructions were to warn against thoughtless behavior in relationships among fellow Christians (Jas. 4:1, 5:9). Therefore, James was encouraging Christians to be conscious of God’s Word (Rom. 10:17). It is not retreating from conflict described in this verse because James reveals God’s expectation for all who have been born again. It is that we actively make an effort to change habits and behaviors of speaking before listening. An attitude that promotes the righteous life that God desires is fostered when we listen by considering, understanding, and learning from each other. Careful listening serves and assists in administering God’s love for others that can heal, repair, build, and strengthen the community of believers. In doing so, this is the ministry that God desires for all believers to have toward each other.

Reflection

Throughout life, many of us have experienced the consequences of opening our mouth and responding quickly to others’ words and actions. We must be willing to listen to what is said, hear what is spoken, guard our lips, and be cognizant of our reactions in all that we do.

Personal reflection 

Write down ways that you can become a better listener. 

Prayer

Dear Lord, I must admit that sometimes I struggle with being quick to listen, and instead, I am quick to speak. God, I need you to help me to be quick to listen, slow to speak. This is not only with those I deem indispensable but also my brothers and sisters in Christ. Also, help me be quick to hear and slow to speak as relates to You and Your Word, In Jesus Name, I pray, amen!