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For me, addiction looked like porn. I was exposed at age nine and felt stuck throughout my twenties before finally taking three initial steps toward true freedom. 

Whether it’s some kind of sex-addiction, substance abuse, digital distraction, obsessive hobbies, fits of anger, overworking, or anything that steals from our lives—most of us have an addiction story.

At some point, I decided I’d be stuck the rest of my life. But Jesus came to give us life to the full, and He set me free from sexual addiction. It wasn’t immediate. It was a journey with many steps, and it started like this. 

First, I had to dig up the root. Addiction is often a symptom of something deeper. For me it was a lack of validation. I felt I wasn’t enough for God, my wife, my family, or my dreams. Porn somehow promised to make me feel wanted and validated. Instead, I needed to discover that God had already validated me. He created me, called me, chose me, gave me purpose, and loved me with real love.  

Ask God to reveal the deeper roots for you. He’s a kind and loving Father. You can run to Him and find the comfort, peace, and healing that addiction will never give you.

Second, I brought it to the light. For years, addiction was a secret I thought I could handle on my own. Once I confessed it to close friends, my wife—and asked the right people to hold me accountable—my addiction began to lose its power. 

Third, I looked to Jesus. Jesus said He experienced every temptation known to man. He understands our battles. So, I looked to Jesus. In Matthew, chapter four, He was tempted by Satan himself three times. Three times, Jesus, God’s perfect Son, quoted the Bible. So, if it worked for Jesus … 

I found some Bible truth and started repeating it daily, especially when I was tempted. Start with one verse and go from there. Maybe pick one of the many from today’s reading. 

Dig up the root, bring it to light, and fight back with truth. 

Will, totally free

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