2. Look for the Good, Bright and Positive in People

Looking for the good and positive traits in people lifts us up. It lightens the burden of negative feelings and increases our appreciation of them when we appreciate something – whether it’s a sunset, piece of art, or a trait in a person – we experience pleasure. Life is sweeter when we dwell on the good. God even tells us to do so. Whether you’re looking for bad or good in someone, you’re likely to find it. Follow God’s advice and look for the good in people, and you’ll discover that some sweet things will happen in your spirit.   

While you’re at it, go ahead and speak affirmation to the people about the good you see in them. Feelings of insecurity and inadequacy are more common than you might think. It’s always good to hear encouraging words from others. You never know the depth of a person’s fight to believe they’re OK, valuable, and “enough.” Whether to a non-Believer or a Believer, a sincere expression of affirmation can make someone’s day. It’s very likely to make yours, as the giver, too.