Living With Unmet Longing: A Study of the Woman at the WellExemplo

Up until now, we’ve learned about unmet longing, and how Jesus promises to take away our thirst, once and for all.

But . . . how?

And what in the world does he mean by “living water?”

Thankfully, we learn exactly what he means just a few chapters later.

In John 7, Jesus is attending the Feast of Tabernacles—a big religious celebration in the Jewish calendar. He was drawing big crowds as he taught in the temple. And on the last day of the feast, the biggest day of the party when emotions ran high, he stood up and shouted an invitation similar to the one he gave the woman at the well:

“Anyone who is thirsty may come to me! Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the scriptures declare, ‘Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.’” (John 7:37-38, NLT).

John adds commentary to tell us that by “living water,” Jesus was referring to the Holy Spirit, who is given to everyone who believes the gospel—the good news.

Simply put: God gives himself to us. He gives us his presence, his peace, his acceptance, and his steadfast love. He is our best companion. He is our constant friend. Others may let us down, but God always has a seat at the table for us.

Yes, God’s gifts are good. It’s good to want human companionship through marriage and family. It’s good to pursue meaning in work. It’s good to ask for healing and blessing. But even the best gifts in life will leave us wanting more, sending us on yet another trip to the well.

Jesus came to show us that our infinite longings can only be satisfied by an infinite God.

And while this “living water” is ours right now, it will carry us into eternity with him.

Let’s wrap up with a simple prayer:

Holy Spirit, I’m amazed that you dwell inside me. Forgive me for days or weeks or months when I’ve ignored you. Please speak to me, and make me sensitive to hear your voice. Please satisfy my longing as only you can. In Jesus’ name, amen.