Suffering: A Study in JobSample

What does it say?

Job spoke to his three friends, asking them for comfort rather than arguments.

What does it mean?

When Job needed comfort, his friends poured salt into an open wound. His emotions erupted after being rebuked by Eliphaz. Job was ready for God to take him before he denied or spoke against the Lord. Job needed encouragement. He wanted his friends to simply be there for him. Had there been something Job could have done to end the suffering, he would have gladly done it. He needed companionship, but his friends did not understand what he was going through or how to help him.

How should I respond?

We often try to fix situations and even people. But despite our best intentions, we sometimes have no idea what to say to a broken-hearted friend. Sadly, you may have said the wrong thing when words weren’t necessary. This week, allow God to use you as a friend willing to love and encourage someone else. You may be the only encouragement that person receives. Ask God to help you discern when to listen, when to speak, and when just to be there. You may be surprised to discover that your mere presence is enough.