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Refresh Your Marriage in 31 Days

DAY 9 OF 31

"You can get addicted to compliments"

“Twenty years ago, I told her in front of the wedding altar that I find her quite attractive and pretty nice – once and for all. So she knows. That should be enough.”

Women forget. She must hear the wedding vow eight times a day. And your husband nine times. Men forget even faster. Compliments have the power to change lives. Compliment your partner with a text message, face to face, or via carrier pigeon. Don’t miss a single opportunity. Describe the beauty of your spouse, how proud you are of him, how well he has achieved something. Roll out the red carpet for him. Make her the queen of Europe, princess of the galaxy, the brightest star in heaven. Do not let the sun go down without having spoken innumerable compliments. Spoil her soul with words, be poetic.

You can read to her from the Song of Songs. A book filled with imaginative compliments, where breasts are compared to gazelles. It will become even more exciting when you try to interpret the poem for her.

MARRIAGE-BOOSTER

Compliment your spouse when others can hear it too. That is even more powerful.
Read to each other from the Song of Songs and have fun doing so!

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About this Plan

Refresh Your Marriage in 31 Days

31 short, smart and cheeky texts want to help you to get your marriage back on track. And to keep the fire burning in your relationship. The authors Susanna and Leo Bigger want to encourage you to try something new and to tackle old issues: listening to each other, talk about sexuality and feelings, finally introduce pocket money, allow the romance a comeback, read the Song of Songs to each other. Are you ready to put more wood on the fire?

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