The Father Loves You By Pete BriscoeSample

Day 10

The Father’s Perfect Patience

Lord, give me patience, and give it to me NOW! —Unknown

Remember when I mentioned that people often build their view of God based on what their earthly fathers were like? Whereas many of us have great, loving dads, some people have a father figure who is constantly angry with his family. Perhaps he vents stress from other parts of his life onto the nearest and least resistant source. Or maybe he holds the people nearest to him to ridiculously high standards and reacts irrationally when they aren’t met. Regardless of the source, angry dads can lead people to think that God the Father is like their father—angry at everybody and everything. That’s not only wrong but contradictory to what the Bible tells us!

God revealed Himself to Moses as the Father who is “…slow to anger…” (Exodus 34:6). And David sang of the Father with words like these:

The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love… As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust. (Psalm 103:8,13-14)

God the Father is patient.

I’m learning this one the hard way. I’ve done some basketball coaching over the years. Back when my son Liam was just a little guy in elementary school, with years of learning ahead of him, I (embarrassingly) expected him to be where I was when I played in college! I would see what he was doing, expect something else, deal with him in “coach” lingo, and see his eyes well up with tears. Oh, how I sometimes wish it was God coaching that team and not me! I was impatient with him, expecting him to be what he would one day be today.

God knows our weaknesses. He knows how we have been made, and He gives us slack when others might just cut us off. Amazingly, He sees us as we are “in Christ” and knows full well who He is shaping us to become. He recognizes the process of development and growth and is thoroughly patient with us as we trudge along the path. I don’t know about you, but I am thoroughly happy we have a Father like that!

Father, Your patience is long, deep, and loving. I don’t deserve such an act of caring, so thank You for caring enough to act like that toward me. I pray this patience will be shown in my life as I interact with others so they can see what You’ve done in me! Amen.