GraceSampel

Conquering Shame

Grace is kindness shown to those who don’t otherwise deserve it. I receive God’s kindness even though my all-too-human imperfections might keep me from this God. Grace is being accepted by God even though aspects of my life are unacceptable to Him and to me. So it is in no way a reward for goodness. I may not be very good, but am yet loved and embraced by the One who made me and loves me.

Grace conquers shame. Sadly, some feel heavily burdened by the weight of their sin and shame. But our gracious God, while knowing all about our sins, still offers His hand of mercy and help. His grace doesn’t ignore our imperfections. It rather reminds us that they have been dealt with by Jesus on the cross.

Once we let this reality of grace sink in, we are better able to enter into grace-full relationships with others. If I despise or dismiss myself, I will most likely do the same to others. If I can’t accept myself, with all my faults, I will not find it easy to accept others with their human failings.

God’s grace is about Him accepting me even as He doesn’t approve of all I do or say or think. It’s a liberating grace because it enables me to accept others without approval. It is the powerful antidote to shame. His grace heals me of the shame I do not deserve, and the shame I do. It is a grace whose Christian name is Jesus.

Written by DAVID REAY