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Raised In a Minivan

"This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind." (Ecclesiastes 4:4)

Are you burning out your kids with too many scheduled activities? Are you, like Martha (Luke 10:40), allowing busyness to distract you and your family from what is truly important? These are questions worth asking. Many of today’s parents want their children to experience everything available—motivated in part by the desire that their kids will be able to “compete” with their peers when college scholarships are handed out. Those are laudable intentions. But are all the sports practices, singing lessons, and dance recitals worth the price?

According to recent studies, free time for kids is down to only six hours a week. Moms average more than five car trips a day running errands and chauffeuring their children. Typical of this scene, perhaps, is one Chicago-area mother of four busy children. She admitted recently that her one-year-old was practically being raised in the family minivan. “When he’s not in the van, he’s somewhat disoriented,” she said.

When kids aren’t sure which is home, the house, or the family car, something is wrong. Give your children downtime to play, to wonder, to “waste some time,” and to just be kids. Solomon describes the relentless pursuit of knowledge and achievement, when not inspired by God, as “meaningless, a chasing after the wind” (Ecclesiastes 1:16-18; 4:4). We agree.

Questions for Today . . .

• Do your kids have free time every day?
• Do they enjoy their outside activities? Do you?
• What activities might you consider cutting from their schedule?

Prayer . . .

Slow me down, dear Lord. I’ve been like Martha, worried and distracted, instead of Mary, who spent time at Your feet, enjoying and adoring You. Please change my heart by Your indwelling Holy Spirit. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Parents. Used with permission.)

Bonus Content: The Blessings of Being Still

Psalm 46:10 offers a profound invitation to "be still and know that I am God," reminding us of the importance of pausing amidst the hustle and bustle of life to enjoy our personal time with Him. In this video, Chris Bruin explains that in a world filled with noise and distractions, making time to be alone with the Lord allows us to calm our minds, center our hearts, and cultivate a deeper and more intimate relationship with Him. When we really know God, we understand that we can trust Him at all times.