Love God Greatly: Words Matterनमुना

Today's verses are crucial for our relationship with others. We´re talking today about confrontation, conflict and correction. As Christians, we are called to exhort others. But, what does it mean exactly? What´s exhortation? Let me start by telling you what exhortation is not: it's not telling the other person everything he's doing wrong making him feel guilty and ashamed. 

Exhortation comes from the Greek word paraklésis, which means “to call to one’s side; to summon, encourage, admonish, entreat.” It is the same root as paraklétos, the Holy Spirit (John 14:16-17). To exhort is to develop relationships with other believers for the purpose of encouraging them in their spiritual growth. 

Our final goal when we exhort someone is encouragement. And that's the starting point to confronting someone, resolving conflicts, and correcting others. When we see someone is doing things wrong, we need to speak truth, yes, but we have to speak truth in love. That's what makes all the difference. 

Dear Lord, help me speak truth in love. I don't want to be the judge of other Christians, but to help them grow in their spiritual life. In Jesus’ name, amen.