How Do I Make Friends?

Throughout His ministry, Jesus surrounded Himself with people who could encourage Him, pray for Him, and support Him. Yes, Jesus was their Savior, but He was also their friend.

Here’s how Jesus talked about His relationship with
His followers:

“I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” John 15:15 NIV

If Jesus chose close relationships, it’s a good idea for us to find close relationships with other followers of Jesus, too.

Sometimes life can feel impossibly difficult, and in those moments, we need people we can lean on for prayer, guidance, and support. In times of joy, celebrating with friends can make those moments even more meaningful.

These things are true about relationships because God made us to be like Him. God is in life-giving relationship with Himself as the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and He desires a relationship with us. That’s why surrounding yourself with people who follow Jesus is an essential spiritual practice—when you do so, you’re following God’s example.

Do you have the close relationships you need in life? People who encourage you in your relationship with Jesus and support you through life’s highs and lows? If not, think about how you can invest in the relationships you already have or find the friendships you need.

If you don’t currently have close, Jesus-following friends, Small Groups or Life Groups are a great place to start. This is where groups of people who seek Jesus come together. They meet in person or online and focus on a variety of topics.

Finding and making friends can feel awkward or intimidating, but finding your people is worth the initial discomfort. It’s life-giving to have friends who celebrate you, support you, and encourage you to keep getting to know Jesus every day.