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Different

I’ve heard the average first responder will see more human tragedy in the first three years of their career than the average person will see in a lifetime. Blood and gore are something all response and rescue personnel experience.

As chaplains for a city police department in Florida, we had to undergo desensitizing training so we wouldn't freak out or get sick when responding to a traumatic incident. We sat through dozens of slides showing the horrors of deceased individuals, both accidental deaths and killings.

Ministry to cops is different. A normal pastor never experiences these things when ministering to his congregation. God’s call of a police or fire chaplain is unique, not to mention that of a prison chaplain. Romans 12:4 reveals the fact that God gave you different gifts to serve others as no one else can.

Chaplains are a special breed. Regular people don't get you or your weird sense of humor. You're different—and that's OK. First responders understand you, and so does God.

Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that He created chaplains differently for a reason: to help first responders experiencing unique traumas. This is because you are more than merely a shepherd—you are a trauma processor for yourself and your coworkers. Every day, you must confront unusual sights and events and work through those (or help others do so) in order to continue serving your flock.

In an occupation where most individuals would quit during the first week, you were created to handle things normal people cannot. Your thick skin is a gift that protects you (Pslam 139:14).

It is amazing when you consider God chose and equipped you to serve and protect society. He trusts you with a huge responsibility. That's an honor.

While it's true not everyone will appreciate your thick skin, it's important to debrief regularly with a godly friend or mentor who doesn't judge you. This month, make it a point to nurture a relationship with someone who understands and admires your work.