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Renewing Your Mind

As men, our thought lives are often shaped by the world’s expectations of men: success equals value, failure means weakness, and vulnerability is a sign of defeat. These messages create stress and anxiety, leaving little room for the peace God wants to give us.

Paul challenges us to reject harmful thought patterns from the world and allow God to renew our minds with His Word.

Renewal happens when we replace lies with truth. For example, the world may tell you that you are only as good as your last accomplishment. But God says, “You are fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14)—you are valuable, not because of what you do, but because He has created you and values you.

Transformation begins with believing what God says about you and trusting His promises over societal pressures. You are loved, not for what you can do, but for who you are…God’s child.

In therapy, I learned about cognitive restructuring, which is a modern term for a biblical practice that aligns with “taking every thought captive” (2 Corinthians 10:5) and renewing your mind with God’s truth.

Not every thought that we think is good. Most of us don’t give any consideration to what we’re thinking—we just think it. By developing a habit of intentionally identifying harmful thought patterns and replacing them with the truth of Scripture, you are actively participating in the transformation Paul describes.

This isn’t just “positive thinking”; it’s grounding yourself in the ultimate truth of God’s Word. For every lie you hold on to, find a more powerful truth from God’s Word to put in its place.

Prayer: Lord, help me reject the lies the world tells me and renew my mind with Your truth. Teach me to see myself through Your eyes and to trust in who You say I am. Amen.

Reflection: What lies have you believed about yourself? Write down a biblical truth that counters them and reflect on how it transforms your perspective.