EquipHer Vol. 8: "Lessons Learned on Working With Family"ಮಾದರಿ

Day 2: Communicate Openly and Respectfully

When we work with our loved ones, open and respectful communication is essential for building a successful relationship, both personally and professionally. This starts with clearly defining each person’s role and position, but it also requires prioritizing honesty, respect, and mutual listening.

In a family dynamic, we often tend to treat our family members as if they were “just people,” forgetting that they are the ones we share not only work but also our lives with. It is sometimes easy to fall into the trap of thinking that just because family members may know and understand you best, they can tolerate harsh behavior or words from you. At times, you may experience the temptation to be more critical or strict with family members, thinking “they’ll forgive me” or simply “he’s my husband, she’s my sister, he’s my brother.” However, this approach can deeply damage trust and respect; two fundamental pillars for any relationship and for success in a family business.

In reality, our family members have feelings, and they are just as committed as we are. If they are working alongside us, it’s because they believe in our vision and project. Treating them with the same respect they deserve as colleagues is not only a matter of good manners but true professionalism. Indeed, transparent and respectful communication is the foundation for maintaining a healthy, productive work environment that nurtures relationships.

Combining family dynamics and professional work is a challenge that requires commitment, transparency, clear boundaries, and well-defined roles. When we communicate clearly and honestly, we create a space where everyone feels heard and understood. This is the heart of healthy collaboration: clear communication. As Paul states in Ephesians 4:29: "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."

Reflective Questions:

• How do I communicate with my family members I work with?
• When there is disagreement, how can I approach the conversation in a positive and encouraging way?

Prayer: Lord, help me to communicate honestly, respectfully, and constructively with the people I love and work with. Grant me the wisdom to listen with empathy, to face challenges with patience, and to build a work environment that honors our relationships and mutual commitment. Amen.