Ignite Her

My friends and I often find ourselves knee-deep in the throes of life, taking care of everyone else while our spiritual lives take a hit. As women, we juggle roles as wives, mothers, daughters, sisters, professionals, and friends. Amid all these responsibilities, we may neglect our own spiritual nourishment. Less time with God can lead to frustration, delay, and disappointment, dimming our light. We may feel overwhelmed, disconnected, and unsure of our direction. Before long, that flame is out, and we are fighting to stay afloat, losing the sense of joy and purpose that once fueled our daily lives.

It is so important to not only understand that our flame is important but also to know how crucial it is to nurture our flame so that we can walk in the purposes and plans that God has for us. Just as a fire requires fuel, oxygen, and attention, our spiritual life needs regular time with God, intentional personal growth, and support from a faith community. We must prioritize our relationship with God, setting aside time for prayer, meditation, and studying His Word. This isn't just about adding another task to our to-do list; it’s about making space for the One who gives us strength, clarity, and peace.

Nurturing our flame means recognizing our worth and the unique gifts God has placed within us. It means seeking out growth opportunities, whether through learning new skills, engaging in meaningful conversations, or stepping out of our comfort zones. It also means leaning on our sisters in Christ and allowing ourselves to be supported and uplifted by those who understand our journey.

When we take these steps, we reignite our inner fire. Our passion and enthusiasm are renewed, and we find ourselves more equipped to handle life's challenges. Our flame not only brightens our path but also becomes a beacon of hope and encouragement to others. By nurturing our flame, we can better fulfill the roles we cherish and walk confidently in the destiny God has prepared for us.

Remember, your flame is a precious gift from God. It’s what makes you uniquely you, and it’s what empowers you to make a difference in the world. Protect it, nurture it, and let it shine brightly, reflecting the light of Christ to everyone you encounter.

Ignite Her Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of the flame You have placed within each of us. Help us recognize when our flame needs tending and take the necessary steps to nurture it. Surround us with a supportive community and remind us to seek You daily, finding strength and renewal in Your presence. May our flames burn brightly, illuminating the path You have set before us and inspiring others along the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

-Dacía James Lewis