You Are Not a Fraud

Why do we disqualify ourselves from being successful before we even start? Who told us to doubt our abilities and our power? What could we accomplish if we held up our heads and believed that we have everything we need inside us to succeed? The possibilities would be endless!

I often feel that because I’m so timid and introverted, I don’t deserve to speak in front of audiences and share with others in such an influential way. Yet here I am, talking to large groups of women on a regular basis!

Whatever negative messages may be troubling you, stressing you, or discouraging you today, know those voices are not your own. Those are the voices of all the people who have criticized or doubted you. The people who told you that you didn’t belong in the room. The people who told you that you were too loud, too opinionated, or too much. The people who suggested that you pursue an easier career path because you’ve got enough to take care of at home.

Listen to me: you deserve to be here. You deserve to explore opportunities that intrigue you. You deserve to have a life and interests outside of your home. Don’t let imposter syndrome win. You are not a fraud. You know how hard you’ve worked and all the energy you’ve invested. Do not waste time worrying about the worst-case scenario.

Focus your thoughts and your energy on the best possible outcome: you and your family are thriving, your mental health is flourishing, your marriage is full of love and contentment, your children are healthy and cared for, your friendships are genuine, your business is successful, and your every need is met.

Believe it. Meditate on those things that make you smile, and fill your heart with wonder. Your life will line up with your thoughts. Make sure those thoughts are exactly what you want your life to be.

You are not a fraud. You have put in the work. Do not waste precious energy doubting your worth or capabilities. You deserve to be here.

Prayer

Lord, thank you for creating me with a purpose and for helping me find success in the big and little challenges in life. Please continue to remind me that I am your creation and that I am worthy. Amen.