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The Proverbs :: A Guidebook for Men

DAY 27 OF 31

How can we determine the true measure of a man? As we go through life, seeking to grow into mature manhood, what is the benchmark, or the test, that we can use to feel confident and assured that we are growing in the right direction?

Perhaps the answer is to be found in a quote once spoken by Robert G. Ingersoll about Abraham Lincoln,

“Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.”

Or maybe we draw from a more recent example inspired by the words of Philadelphia’s own Rocky Balboa,

“It’s not about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.”

While men worldwide have been tested and tried by power and perseverance, what if we took a slightly different approach?

What if we looked at what the Proverbs writer says is the test of a man: his praise?

“The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and a man is tested by his praise.”

Why is praise the ultimate test for maturity and depth? Because it strikes at the very center of what nearly all of us tend to treasure most: our pride.

It can be complicated to separate praise and pride. They often are enmeshed, woven together like strands in a rope. That’s why this is the test for every man. As the crucible separates the dross from the silver and the furnace is used to purify gold, praise can also be used to separate pride from our hearts and purify our motives.

The Proverbs writer intentionally shows us that praise is not simply when people say nice things about us. That is why he writes, “A man is tested by his praise.” Earlier in the chapter, we see another verse that clarifies this further.

“Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.”

So what is the test? How can we know if our response to praise is Godly or self-glorifying? While there are many nuances that we could call out, here are two practical ways:

  1. When you give praise, are you more likely to boast about yourself or build others up?
  2. When you get praise spoken of you, does it satisfy something you think you deserve, or does it send you towards gratitude for the grace of God in your life?

When faced with praise, both given and received, we will either respond in pride or humility. And how you choose will determine much about the measure of your character.

Nothing we will ever be praised for is of our own account. The breath in our lungs, the strength in our hands, the fortitude in our minds, it’s all God. It’s all been given to us by grace for the glorification of His Name.

Let us be men who choose humility and who allow praise to drive us to our knees before our great and mighty God.

God, may we never be found valuing man’s opinion and his words over Yours. May we be the type of men who see praise as a vehicle, not for our own gain, but for Your glory.

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The Proverbs :: A Guidebook for Men

There is, within every man, a deep desire to do what is right, a longing to navigate all of life's adventures with a clear understanding of what is at stake and the best path forward toward victory. Join the Passion team as we pursue God's promised wisdom through the Proverbs in a holy effort to keep the proper heading.

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