Breakthrough of Love

You’ve probably had conflict in relationships that left you feeling unsteady and insecure. Maybe you disappointed a loved one, or there is distance in a friendship that wasn’t there before. It can feel disconcerting to be unsure of where you stand with someone. Relationships can be complicated, and everyone experiences conflict at some point. A lack of security can make you question the validity of the relationship or even your identity as it relates to a specific person.

While it’s good to be emotionally aware of your relationships, your sense of validation is meant to come from God, not others. When your sense of belonging comes from where you stand with others, you set yourself up for disappointment. Searching for security in other people’s opinions is like walking on unsteady ground. You might be able to find your footing sometimes, but overall, your steps won’t be reliable or consistent.

True security comes from communion with your Maker. His approval of you is consistent and unchanging. His love for you is strong and steady no matter how you feel. His opinion of you doesn’t change as you experience trials or frustrations. He is not capable of misunderstanding you, and his communication skills are perfect. By understanding his love for you, you can experience a sense of confidence that is unwavering. When your sense of belonging comes from him, it cannot be taken away.

You can always be assured of God’s great love. There is no need to question if you are secure in it. The power of God’s love cannot be overstated. His mercy and kindness are uninterrupted even when you choose your ways over his. When you turn your heart toward him, he will gently correct you and guide you along the right path. If you ask him for mercy, he will never leave you floundering in your mistakes or wondering how he feels about you. Take a deep breath and rejoice, knowing you are fully loved and cared for.