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YES... You Need Accountability
You cannot fight this battle against lust and infidelity on your own. You need accountability—someone who will walk alongside you, pray with you and challenge you to stay on track. Accountability isn't just about having someone to confess to, it’s about having someone who loves you enough to call you out, push you toward healing, and hold you responsible for your actions.
When I was struggling with being unfaithful, I turned to my friend Chris for accountability. He didn’t shame or judge me, but he didn’t let me off the hook either. He prayed for me, encouraged me, and offered support, but he also challenged me in ways I wasn’t ready for. He told me to stop making excuses, to seek counseling, and to cut off all contact with the women I had been involved with or was tempted by. His tough love and insistence on real change was a turning point for me.
Without that accountability, I would have remained stuck in the same patterns. Chris wasn’t just a passive listener—he was actively invested in my healing. Accountability like that helps you make the hard decisions, face the truth, and take real steps toward healing. It provides the strength and support needed to break free from destructive behaviors and rebuild what’s been broken.
Accountability isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. When you allow others into your struggle, you open the door for real change.
Challenge
Find an accountability partner today—someone you can trust to walk alongside you in this journey. Reach out to a friend, pastor, or mentor who will pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable as you pursue healing. If you’re struggling to find the right person, consider seeking professional counseling for guidance and support. Don’t walk this road alone; having someone to stand with you can make all the difference.
Prayer
Lord, lead me to the right person who will help hold me accountable. Give me the strength to be open and honest with them. Amen.
About this Plan
Through this 27-day devotional, Don Hopkins leads you on a journey toward healing—healing for you, your wife, and your marriage. Each day is designed to lead you closer to freedom, redemption, and reconciliation. I won’t sugarcoat it: the road ahead requires honesty, humility, and hard work. But as you lean into the tools shared in this bible plan and God’s grace, you will discover that He provides the strength to overcome lust and rebuild trust in your marriage.
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