13 Keys in RelationshipsSample

Key 5: Read the Bible together

Every morning, I bring my hubby coffee in bed. Then he reads us a verse of his choice, just one. Or he might share something he read from the Bible, e.g. a parable. Then we discuss it—what it means—how it applies to our lives, etc. Throughout the day we will recall this verse or passage and keep on talking about it. It is a wonderful way to engage Scripture in a spontaneous way throughout the day without it becoming a religious ritual. Ask the Lord what will work best for your relationship, and enjoy reading, thinking, and discussing passages from Scripture together.

Key 6: Check your attitude

A healthy relationship does not require you to change your personality, but it motivates you to change bad attitudes. Statistics on Broken relationships list "pride" as one of the top reasons. This is where one or both individuals find it hard to admit mistakes and apologize first. Beware that the enemy wants you to view each other as an "enemy." Ask the Lord to help both of you to be humble and respectful towards one another as a rule.

QUESTIONS TO ASK

>> What way will work best for you as a couple to engage Scripture in a meaningful way?

>> Discuss with your partner how you can or want to handle possible future conflicts. Build in some things you agree on to help you always treat each other with respect and honor when having disagreements.