Pursuing PeaceSample

At Peace with the Past   

Finding peace with the past can be a challenge, whether it be a decision you regret or forgiving someone who wronged you. It is important to deal with the past so it cannot have power over the present or the future. Imagine it like riding a bicycle. If you keep looking behind, or focus straight down, you will inevitably end up crashing into something. It’s important to keeping looking forward and engage in the new things that God is doing.  

An important way to make peace with past hurts is to choose forgiveness. When you forgive someone who hurt you, it doesn't mean that you approve of what has happened. Rather, it means you are giving yourself permission to move on with your life. Your beautiful past is good for two things: to learn from and to enjoy the life that God has given.

African Proverb:

When there is peace in the country, the chief does not carry a shield. ~ Ugandan proverb

Peace and reconciliation is a process of healing in which Tearfund has been blessed to be part of. Here is one story from Rwanda about how forgiveness can heal even the deepest wounds.

Action: 

Are there situations where you feel you are carrying a shield due to lack of peace? If you feel brave, head to a local cemetery and walk through to gain a sense of perspective about the past. Many gravestones will host a last message from loved ones saying “Rest in Peace”. Give yourself time to let your guard down with God and make peace with yourself if you have regrets or unforgiveness about the past.