Into The Breach – How A Christian Man LovesSample

Into The Breach – How A Christian Man Loves

DAY 4 OF 7

  

Day 4 — The mystery of marriage

Read: Ephesians 5:21-33

Paul shows Christian couples how their marriage is to be lived in the Lord and transformed by his grace, a living sign reflecting the love of Christ for his church. Christian marriage, then, must be faithful, permanent, self-giving, monogamous, indissoluble, generative, and fruitful. A married couple is a living sign for the whole community that God is loving and merciful, generous and self-giving, trustworthy and steadfast, creative and abundant. 

In the Greco-Roman culture, the patriarch was the head of his wife and household, who were required to obey him. While not overturning the norms of the culture, Paul shows how marriage is transformed when understood as a sacramental image of Christ and his church. Instead of male dominance, Paul tells husbands and wives to “be subordinate to one another” (v. 21 NABRE). The responsibilities within marriage are mutual, each responding to the needs of the other. If a husband is to be head of the wife, it must be in the way that Christ is head of the church, responsible for her and giving himself totally for her. Husbands must love their wives in the way that Christ loves the church, completely subordinating his own life for hers, always seeking the good of his spouse with self-sacrificial love (v. 25). 

In Christian marriage there is no place for authoritarianism, self-assertion, and self-centeredness. Spouses are responsible for the holiness and salvation of each other. As Christ bathes his church in baptism and nourishes it with Eucharist, the husband must cherish his wife’s body and soul. 

REFLECT: What can I incorporate into my own life from Paul’s description of the husband-wife relationship in marriage? 

PRAY: Faithful God, who calls husbands and wives to reflect the love of Christ and his church, give me the grace I need to be a visible sign of your love in the world. 

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Into The Breach – How A Christian Man Loves

To love as Christian man there is no better model than the God-Man Jesus. You will discover a whole new way of loving. Written by Stephen Binz based on teachings by Bishop Thomas Olmstead of the Catholic Diocese of Phoenix.

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