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Godly Masculinity – the Road Ahead

DAY 5 OF 7

Man of God – The journey

Introduction:

Yesterday, we spoke about who we are in Christ. That helped us to find our true identity. Today we explore the concept of the journey.

Quote:

“The world fears strong men because they cannot be controlled. They lead, inspire and revolutionize”

Author – Unknown

Overview of the process that we discussed yesterday:

  • Step 1: there is an altercation with God
  • Step 2: The choice: Do I respond to this new calling of God?
  • Step 3: If I accept or respond to this calling of God, then the process of transformation starts with the results being a new, transformed identity and life
  • If I decide not to accept or respond to the call, then nothing is going to change.

From today on we will focus on Step 3.

Excuses

Have you ever heard any of the following excuses:

  • I am a product of my circumstances– I cannot be used (Judges 11)
  • I cannot change
  • Only I have challenges– a black sheep mentality
  • Only pastors have a calling on their lives – the rest of us can sit on the sideline
  • My wife is the spiritual leader of the house

The three dimensions of our journey:

  • Spiritual journey
  • Mental journey
  • Physical journey
  • All three dimensions are closely related and very tightly integrated
  • If one fails, the other will suffer in some way
  • The objectives:
    • Develop a growth mentality
    • Grow in all dimensions
    • Grow in a balanced way

Examples from the Bible:

  • Abraham
    • Gives his wife up twice (Gen 12 and Gen 20)
    • The Ishmael disaster (Gen16)
    • God tests Abraham (Gen 22)
  • ·Samuel
    • He must learn to know the voice of God (1 Sam 3:9, 1 Sam 3:19)
  • ·Peter
    • Called as a disciple (Luke 5)
    • Walks on water
    • Jesus rebukes Peter (Matt 16:23)
    • Peter renounces Jesus (John 18)
    • Jesus gives Peter a new calling (John 21)

Dimensions of our mental journey

Knowledge

  • Knowledge of the Word of God.
  • God’s Word = Truth (countermeasure for lies)
  • Knowledge about the world we live in
  • Expansions of our knowledge
  • The knowledge of Him that becomes wisdom

Thoughts and emotions

When both are in balance, we find ourselves in a healthy mental state

Scripture:

  • Prov. 4:23 (NLT)
    • 23 Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.
  • ROM. 12:2 (NLT)
    • 2 Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
  • Ps. 139:23-24 (NLT)
    • 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. 24 Point out anything in me that offends you and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
  • 2 Tim 1:7 (NLT)
    • 7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity but of power, love, and self-discipline.
  • Phil 4:6-7 (NLT)
    • 6 Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

Dimensions of our physical journey

  • Nutrition
  • Care
  • Maintenance and development

We will explore this more in tomorrow’s session

Questions to ponder

  • Now that you have awareness of the three dimensions of your journey, are you in balance? Or is there one or more dimensions that need attention?
  • Are you doing enough to grow mentally? Are you doing enough to stay mentally resilient?
  • How is your physical journey progressing? Is there something that you need to pay attention to?
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About this Plan

Godly Masculinity – the Road Ahead

This is a Bible Plan for men by men. This Plan helps you to discover your identity as a Godly and masculine man and to develop the characteristics of a Godly and masculine man.

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