The Prodigal's FamilySýnishorn

The Father’s Story

I have two sons. I love them both very much. They are the delight of my life. But as any parent knows, sometimes my sons are, … how shall I put it? … Not the best men they can be. Most parents know what I mean!

My younger son is a restless soul, always testing boundaries and living as if the rules don’t apply to him. He lives like there’s no tomorrow and is always getting into trouble.

I admire his sense of freedom and his generosity. He has time for everyone and he has a whole-hearted approach to joyfulness, but he does have a tendency for taking things too far, no matter how I counsel him otherwise.

My older son is just the opposite. He is cautious and careful and wouldn’t dream of breaking a rule! He does as he’s told. He’s a dependable, reliable, hard-working man, you might say a model son. But this seemingly perfect behaviour hides a jealous and resentful heart. My older son follows the rules but envies the generosity and freedom of his brother. He resents the liberties his brother takes and lacks joy. But like his brother, he is resistant to my advice even though we spend much of our time together. It can be hard to resist that voice in your head that only wants to think the worst of others or yourself.

If only my sons could see the good in each other, and learn the benefits of freedom from each other. AND restraint! I tell them over and over how much I love them but somehow, they struggle to truly believe it. I would do anything for my children.

This monologue was first used as part of a reconciliation service to aid with the examination of conscience along with the following questions. Use this and the scripture that inspired it to reflect on God’s mercy and forgiveness of us as sinners.

Do you find yourself in that situation sometimes? Where you just go a bit too far? Bring to mind some of those times when you have crossed a line.

Do you find yourself putting on a front to hide your anger and resentment? Are you guilty of thoughts that turn your heart away from love? Do you deceive people by your behaviour?

Do you find yourself with an angry and unforgiving inner voice that you’d rather not have? Consider the times your inner monologue has led you to turn away from what is good, right, and holy.

Are there people who you have neglected to love either by word or action? Bring them to mind now.

The father in this parable is often interpreted to be an image of God as Father. Our earthly fathers pale in comparison to our heavenly Father. As you read through today's scripture concentrate on the actions of the father and take some time to reflect on God's infinite love for you.