See Joy in the Journey

Our days of waiting for a baby can become consumed by all things baby and all the attempts we make to get a baby. But these efforts don’t necessarily bring forth joy or life for us. The truth is, the joy we need isn’t attached to an outcome.

Joy is steady and profound. It isn’t based on any circumstance we’re experiencing or not experiencing but is a state of being. Joy isn’t just happiness; it’s happiness with roots. The happiness we feel toward something good, like a warm summer day or having a baby, can’t be compared to the joy and pleasure of knowing God. He is the creator of all goodness, joy, and happiness we experience.

Joy does not mean the absence of sadness or pain. Instead, the beauty of joy is that it remains even during the hardship and aches of life. For example, have you ever been to a funeral or with someone who has experienced grief, yet they are also at peace, somehow full of assurance in their sadness? This is a picture of real joy.

As much as we try to resist difficulties, they are working in us to produce joy. Allow this trial of infertility to have its thorough work in you, knowing it will develop your faith.

Once we recognize our hardship is not a curse, and we are not victims, we can decide to shift our mindset toward rejoicing and believing that hardship is an opportunity. Though this sounds impossible, don’t take your eyes off of the Lord, no matter how long it’s been or how far you’ve walked away from him. He is never far, and you are never too far gone. Jesus is the author and perfecter of your faith. He will provide the perseverance you need.

In the face of infertility, we can persevere in Christ. He is our example of an unswerving focus on God even as he suffered death on a cross. We find joy and peace in our waiting within His strength and comfort.

Pray

Lord God, I’m waiting for you. Even though I’ve had to suffer grief now, I know you’re using each bit of it to grow my faith. Though I can’t understand what you are doing right now, may I trust, love, and believe in you. Thank you that your presence fills me with unexplainable joy. You bring me hope, God, by who you are.

Respond

Joy is found in our faith that God is working in us. Each day, challenge yourself to find one thing that brings you joy and write it on a sticky note. For example, take note of the sun shining on you, reminding you God created it to bring you warmth and light.