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Keep Your Love On: Connection

DAY 24 OF 31

Day 24

Being in relationships with people offers us both comfort and protection from pain as well as the threat of pain. Fear-based reactions to pain are instinctive. This means that they operate on a very different level inside your brain from conscious, rational responses. You execute them without thinking. And because they come so naturally, they seem normal. If you want to replace fear-based reactions with love-based responses, you will need to train your heart, mind, and body to think and make powerful choices.

  • When your defenses are triggered in a relationship, does your behavior show value for the other person?
  • What are typical fear-based reactions for you? (ex. creating distance, yelling, withholding information, retracting from the other person, etc.)
  • Ask the Holy Spirit for ways to respond instead of simply reacting. Get a plan for the next time your defenses are triggered and ask for His wisdom, Shalom, and help.
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Keep Your Love On: Connection

Connection is the most crucial element in relationship but is often the most overlooked. This Reading Plan helps you identify God's way in relationships.

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