The Resourceful Family: Turning Obstacles Into OpportunitiesSample

As a Resourceful Family, you have an incredible ability to solve problems and adapt to challenges. But sometimes, this strength can lead to a limiting belief: "I can't rely on others." Today, we're going to tackle this mindset head-on.

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that seeking help or relying on others is a sign of weakness. You might worry, "If we ask for help, we're not being resourceful enough," or "We should be able to handle this on our own." But here's the truth: Even the most resourceful families need support and collaboration.

Let's look at what the Bible says about this. In Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, we read: "Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." This passage reminds us that relying on others isn't a weakness—it's a strength. God designed us to be in community together, to support and be supported by others.

Even in the Bible, we saw resourceful individuals who relied on others. Moses, despite his leadership skills, relied on Aaron and Hur to hold up his arms during battle (Exodus 17:12). Paul, with all his knowledge and abilities, constantly relied on and valued his co-workers in ministry.

When we open ourselves to relying on others, we gain new perspectives that can enhance our problem-solving abilities. We build stronger relationships and a supportive community that can carry us through difficult times. By accepting help, we model humility and interdependence for our children, teaching them valuable lessons about community and collaboration. Moreover, when we allow others to help us, we create opportunities for them to use their gifts and feel valued, fostering a cycle of mutual support and encouragement.

Remember, being resourceful doesn't mean doing everything alone. It means knowing how to use all available resources—including the support of others—to overcome challenges and achieve goals. True resourcefulness involves recognizing when to tap into the strengths and abilities of those around us, and combining our efforts to achieve even greater results than we could on our own.

Questions for Reflection:

1. Can you recall a time when accepting help from others led to a better outcome than if you had tackled a problem alone?

2. How might your family's resourcefulness actually increase by learning to rely more on others?

3. What are some practical ways your family can practice asking for and accepting help this week?

4. How does relying on others reflect our ultimate reliance on God?