Warrior Relations Sample

Warriors in the Army of the Lord understand the importance of “one body, many parts” mentioned in 1 Corinthians 12:12-27.

Consider the state of your relationships. The Lord purposefully provides us with destiny helpers at every stage of life. From the outset, El Roi (The God Who Sees Me) has been deeply concerned about humanity's need for divine partnerships. One of the Lord's most significant declarations was that "it was not good for the man to be alone," so He fashioned a suitable helper—a counterpart who complements him (Genesis 2:18 AMP). This aspect of relational dynamics is woven throughout all 66 books of the Bible. Not only in the context of marriage but also within governments, friendships, as a part of the gathering of believers, business, and family dynamics.

Today, we examine the scenario of a wounded warrior, exploring the depths of defeat and depletion. There are moments in life, even for warriors, when we find ourselves grappling with wounds inflicted by the trials of life.

In the Book of Ruth, we encounter Naomi, a widow acquainted with grief after losing her husband and sons. Left with her daughters-in-law, Ruth and Orpah, both also widowed, Naomi experiences a moment of feeling depleted and devoid of resources. In that instant, she sensed she had depleted all she could offer her daughters-in-law.

Have you ever felt similarly drained? Like you have nothing else to give. Allow me for a moment to encourage you with the timeless wisdom from the Apostle Paul:

“We all experience times of testing, which is normal for every human being. But God will be faithful to you. He will screen and filter the severity, nature, and timing of every test or trial you face so that you can bear it. And each test is an opportunity to trust him more, for along with every trial, God has provided for you a way of escape that will bring you out of it victoriously.” 1 Corinthians 10:13

A defining trait of our Lord is His refusal to leave us empty-handed. Amidst their new reality, these women are compelled to trust each other anew, as the men who once provided for them are no longer present.

Pause to reflect.

During our most challenging moments, it's tempting to withdraw, yet we require the support of others, even when we feel utterly spent. Paul reminds the Galatians to "bear one another's burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2). In our darkest hours, the covenant of the church—its people—is meant to assist in carrying burdens too heavy to bear alone.

Remember, God does not abandon us in our grief. He ensures we are surrounded by individuals capable of offering support as we navigate new realities and pursue transformation.

Take a moment to grieve. As Ecclesiastes teaches us, there is a time for every emotion—weeping, laughter, mourning, and dancing (Ecclesiastes 3:4). Currently, we witness Naomi in her mourning phase.

Are you mourning? Whether due to the end of a relationship or the loss of a loved one, take time to acknowledge the raw emotion of sadness. Like Naomi, you may feel depleted. Yet, also recognize those who remain. It's easy to succumb to defeat, but just as Naomi was not alone, neither are you. God is present, and if you look closely, you'll see those who stand beside you.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

I acknowledge my wounds and surrender my pain to You. Grant me comfort as I navigate this new reality and season of life. I trust in Your presence and healing power to mend my broken heart, enabling me to embrace tomorrow’s blessings. In Jesus' name, Amen.