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Loving Our Neighbors

DAY 6 OF 7

How Communities Grow

You probably know yourself better than anyone else. When people listen to your struggles and help you identify your own solutions, you’re more likely to feel empowered, see purpose in God’s plan for you, and experience healthy pride in your accomplishment.

Shouldn’t this same idea be applied to our communities? It’s likely that nobody knows a community better than the people within it. So if we want to be good neighbors to the communities around us, we have to start by stepping out of our comfort zones and spending time to listen to local leaders. After all, we can’t solve problems that we don’t understand.

In the early Church, discontent grew when the Greek-speaking Jews felt that their widows were receiving less than the Hebrew widows. A meeting of all believers was called together to determine how the community would respond to the discrimination.

The problem was incredibly important, but the disciples knew they didn’t have the margin to give it the attention it deserved. Trying to focus on feeding the widows would detract from their overall mission of spreading the gospel, but at the same time, they couldn’t just ignore the issue. 

Feeling this tension, the Church decided to appoint seven men to oversee the food distribution so that the church leaders could continue focusing on teaching God’s Word and discipling the growing number of new believers.

As a result, many more people came to accept faith in Jesus. 

If the church leaders would have responded with their own solutions without taking the time to get curious and listen to other perspectives, they could have had very different results. And the same is true for us. When we approach people, communities, or problems as if we already know the answer, we’re often setting ourselves up for failure. 

Most of the time, our greatest solutions aren’t our contributions. It’s our ability to listen, to show empathy, and to get curious about problems we see that make all the difference. And the more time we spend empowering other people to identify their own solutions, the healthier those communities tend to be. 

So let’s learn from the early Church. It’s easy to think that loving our neighbor means assuming we know everything about them and fixing everything ourselves. But loving our neighbor can’t happen without first getting to know our neighbor and listening to them. 

Instead of swooping in with your ideas, take some time to get to know people. When you do, you gain perspective, and your community retains dignity and ownership. 

Pray: God, I don’t want my solutions to hurt my community, and I don’t want my assumptions to cause unnecessary harm. Please help me listen well and approach new circumstances with curiosity. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Challenge: How can you get curious about an issue you’re passionate about? What voices and perspectives can you seek out to give you a better picture of the situation? 

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About this Plan

Loving Our Neighbors

Jesus calls us to love our neighbor as ourselves. But what does that look like in normal, everyday life? What does loving our neighbor require of us, and how is our faith changed as a result? In this 7-day Bible Plan, we’re exploring what it looks like to love our neighbors the way Jesus does through five key areas: well-being, families, education, justice, and community empowerment.

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