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Correcting our Impressions
How often do we intentionally allow people a chance to directly address our stereotypes of them? The ancient writers who comprise the book of Proverbs remind us that in a dispute we are often swayed by a particular opinion until “someone comes forward and cross-examines” (18:17 NIV).
A crucial step in addressing negative stereotypes is giving people the opportunity to cross-examine or challenge our impressions. This process is called perception-checking, where we tell a person the impression we have of them or their group and allow them to respond.
When was the last time you corrected or altered a negative impression of a person or group after you heard their perspective? How many misunderstandings could be avoided by informing others of our perception of them and inviting clarification?
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About this Plan
Have you ever had a conversation become heated and spiral out of control? The key to having a winsome conversation is to understand the nature of our convictions and how to check our impressions of others. In this seven-day reading plan, we’ll explore how to view people graciously, correct negative impressions of others, and construct winsome conversations with others.
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